I've found that there's not a very well documented specification on where exactly what configuration files go in apache. Especially since they've recently changed how the default does it. Did you install from source or from a package? Packages, especially debian packages, seem to not follow the apache source at all.
It's been a while since I've done much with apache, but if I remember, conf.d/ is where you would put loading the daemon modules like what you've posted, or ffi or stuff like that.
While conf/ is where site specific configuration files go.
This is what mine looks like, this is installed from source.
% ll /opt/apache2
drwxr-xr-x 2 root 4.0K 2010-10-25 14:14 bin/
drwxr-xr-x 2 root 4.0K 2010-10-25 14:14 build/
drwxr-xr-x 2 root 4.0K 2010-10-25 14:14 cgi-bin/
drwxr-xr-x 4 root 4.0K 2010-10-28 15:54 conf/
drwxr-xr-x 3 root 4.0K 2010-10-25 14:14 error/
drwsrwxrwx 3 www 4.0K 2010-10-28 13:06 htdocs/
drwxr-xr-x 3 root 4.0K 2010-10-25 14:14 icons/
drwxr-xr-x 2 root 4.0K 2010-10-25 14:14 include/
drwxr-xr-x 3 root 4.0K 2010-10-25 14:14 lib/
drwxr-xr-x 3 root 4.0K 2010-10-28 16:11 logs/
drwxr-xr-x 4 root 4.0K 2010-10-25 14:14 man/
drwxr-xr-x 14 root 12K 2010-10-14 11:45 manual/
drwxr-xr-x 2 root 4.0K 2010-10-25 14:20 modules/
% ll /opt/apache2/conf
total 88K
drwxr-xr-x 2 root 4.0K 2010-10-28 15:55 extra/
drwxr-xr-x 3 root 4.0K 2010-10-25 14:14 original/
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 14K 2010-10-28 15:54 httpd.conf
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 13K 2010-10-25 14:14 magic
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 45K 2010-10-25 14:14 mime.types
% ll /opt/apache2/conf/extra
total 60K
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 179 2010-10-28 15:31 20_mod_fastcgi.conf
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 2.8K 2010-10-25 14:14 httpd-autoindex.conf
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 1.7K 2010-10-25 14:14 httpd-dav.conf
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 2.3K 2010-10-25 14:14 httpd-default.conf
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 1.1K 2010-10-25 14:14 httpd-info.conf
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 5.0K 2010-10-25 14:14 httpd-languages.conf
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 906 2010-10-25 14:14 httpd-manual.conf
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 3.8K 2010-10-25 14:14 httpd-mpm.conf
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 2.2K 2010-10-25 14:14 httpd-multilang-errordoc.conf
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 10K 2010-10-25 14:14 httpd-ssl.conf
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 817 2010-10-25 14:14 httpd-userdir.conf
-rw-r--r-- 1 root 1.8K 2010-10-28 15:55 httpd-vhosts.conf
But also note that this isn't a live server and I built this apache install specifically to test Wt