Thought id have a go at having a VPS running Debian Buster and installing a GUI and connecting to it using RDP (Reminna).
I installed as below
sudo apt-get -y install xfce4 xfonts-base tightvncserver xrdp
I can RDP in no problem remotely, and log in, but the screen solution in xfce (v4.12) display settings is fixed at 642x480 and there seems no way to amend this.
I am using Reminna as RDP client but the auto scale resolution is not working.