I was using terminator for my terminal emulator, but I'm seeing huge performance issues with it. ie, launching a new terminal session takes 20-30 seconds on my netbook. gnome-terminal is better, but still takes 10-15 seconds to launch.
xterm however takes only a second or two. I'm fine using it, but I absolutely loathe the way it handles copy/paste.
How do I configure xterm to not copy something when highlighted via mouse (since I use a clipboard manager and I don't want my recently used entries to get nuked every time I select something) and use shift+ctrl+c/shift+ctrl+v for copy/paste?
OS is Debian 8, window manager is fluxbox.