There is nothing built-in to IP that lets you do a reverse traceroute, that is, a traceroute from some remote server back to you. That is why network administrators often set up public looking glasses for other network administrators to use. These looking glasses were historically telnet
-based interfaces but nowadays are usually available through web servers. They typically allow traceroute and BGP routing table lookups from the perspective of the network that hosts the looking glass. Large ISPs often host multiple looking glasses installed on (geographically, topologically) different parts of their network.
Starting point for finding looking glasses that allow traceroute: traceroute.org