If you have mod_status enabled (and possibly ExtendedStatus set to On), and you're in a whitelist like this:
#
# Allow server status reports generated by mod_status,
# with the URL of http://servername/server-status
# Change the ".example.com" to match your domain to enable.
#
<Location /server-status>
SetHandler server-status
Order deny,allow
Deny from all
Allow from 127.0.0.1
</Location>
you can get a list of what the processes and threads are doing, uptime, etc. at http://your.server/server-status. (Won't help you if your server is completely irresponsive, though.)